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I never imagined that others would find enjoyment from it and I certainly never thought that couples would come to me to express the transformative impact it had had on their own marriages. As a result of the blog and my twitter account, my husband and I have made some great friends; people we would never have come to meet if we hadn’t stepped down this stag and vixen fantasy path. You may think hotwifing is the same as cuckolding, but there’s a difference. With cuckolding, it’s more usual for the husband to be either ignorant on the wife’s dalliances, or he gets a kick out of being humiliated by the fact that she needs to seek sexual gratification elsewhere. In the hotwife and stag and vixen fantasy, the husband takes satisfaction from knowing that his wife is desired by other men and he allows it.
Stags get a kick watching their wife or girlfriend having sex with other men. Trying to have kids has sucked all the fun out of their love life, and the frustration is starting to threaten their marriage. It’s better to figure out what you want and take time to discuss that in detail with potential other partners than pick a label and assume you mean the same thing but don’t. A Stag/Vixen relationship actively involves the husband in all aspects of his wife’s extramarital relationships. Shane says there definitely was a learning curve when the couple first started living the Stag and Vixen lifestyle. So-called because apart from indulging in extra circular bedroom activities, they’re otherwise a long-term straight married couple with kids and regular jobs, whose friends have no idea what they get up to.
My ‘Bigger Bull,’ being closer in proximity, was fast becoming more than an occasional acquaintance which enabled me to grow in confidence with him and therefore spontaneity. Up until this moment, it was always my pleasure that was the driving force of our encounters but seeing as Christmas was just around the corner, I was feeling very giving. It was time for me to act out one of his ultimate fantasies. My whirlwind adventure in the ‘Big Apple’ had well and truly begun and already provided me with many memories that I would be unlikely to ever forget. I had only been on US soil for a few hours and in that short time I had sipped cocktails in a sophisticated rooftop lounge, danced to live music in a cosmopolitan bar and experienced my first ever BBC back at my hotel. A Cuck gets off on the humiliation aspect of his wife being with other men and depending on the dynamic may get off on being humiliated by those men (Bulls, boyfriends, etc.) in addition to the humiliation from his hotwife.
Having never really been single for an extended period of time, I very much missed out on the dating scene and had never been on a date with someone who wasn’t previously a friend. Therefore I missed out on those butterflies that one has when going on a first date. I’m certainly not complaining and feel very curbsmart app fortunate with my love life previous to marriage. I love getting to know a ‘potential’ bull and the anticipation of a first meet is exhilarating, not to mention the possibilities that it can lead to. Where ‘dating’ in the hotwife lifestyle differs to that of conventional dates is that there is no pressure.
Our relationship is solid, something I’m so grateful for. Our family and careers are where we want them to be so embarking in the lifestyle hasn’t added any pressure to our marriage only excitement and a deeper level of unity. The holiday season was rapidly approaching and I had now been seeing two regular Bulls for a couple of months.
It has had such an extraordinary impact on our marriage and all in very positive ways. My husband and I have always been incredibly close, something our friends have often expressed jealousy of but it has somehow brought us even closer and we find great enjoyment in our secret as no one would ever expect it of us. Typically, this implies that the Stag is actively involved in all aspects of her extramarital relationships.